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- 新增 ExistsByID 方法用于账号存在性检查，避免加载完整对象
- 新增 GetOwnerID 方法用于 API Key 所有权验证，仅查询 user_id 字段
- 优化 AccountService.Delete 使用轻量级存在性检查
- 优化 ApiKeyService.Delete 使用轻量级权限验证
- 改进前端删除错误提示，显示后端返回的具体错误消息
- 添加详细的中文注释说明优化原因

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Implement deferred batch update mechanism to reduce database load:

- Add DeferredService for batching account last_used_at updates
- Add TimingWheelService for efficient recurring task scheduling
- Integrate with GatewayService and OpenAIGatewayService
- Implement BatchUpdateLastUsed repository method using CASE...WHEN SQL
- Fix golangci-lint error: Replace interface{} with any

Benefits:
- Reduces database writes by batching updates (10-second intervals)
- Improves request throughput by deferring non-critical updates
- Maintains accurate account usage tracking for scheduling

原逻辑先执行 Update 再验证 GroupIDs，如果验证失败会导致账号已更新但返回错误。
现改为先验证分组是否存在，再执行 Update 和 BindGroups。