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* Fix the tests to work with separate reset/close methods.
* Ensure we interrupt writes on reset.
* Always delay the proper time even if we're sending short messages.
* Copy buffers as we send them. `Write` is not allowed to hang onto buffers. If
  we run into performance issues, we can always add a buffer pool.

The legacy interface stays unchanged with a panic though.

There were previously 4 different ways of passing various options
into BasicHost construction.

1. Function parameters to New
2. Option parameters to New
3. Global variables, e.g. NegotiateTimeout
4. Options struct, in the calling code in go-ipfs

This changeset deprecated all of these, and introduces the HostOpts
struct to replace them. It also introduces a new constructor called
NewHost, which accepts a *HostOpts.

The old New constructor continues to work the same way,
but is from now on deprecated too.