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This commit cleans up the reuse port setup, and fixes a problem:
make sure to filter addrs out that we simply cannot dial with
(e.g. loopback -> non-loopback, or linklocal -> nonlinklocal)

Good thing, i checked one wrong, too!

Instead of erroring out, which would break the listener,
we instead log a message and continue. This is not an error,
the internet is a place with lots of probing + connection
failures.

This should handle early breakages, where a failing connection
would take out the listener entirely.

There are probably other errors we should be handling here,
like secure connection failures.

This commit makes all network tests use ZeroLocalTCPAddress
as the initial peer address, and then relies on
net.ListenAddresses()

This should get rid of the tcp addr clash problems.

The net package is the next to move. It will be massaged
a bit still to fix the Network / "NetworkBackend" conflict.